SIMPLE vs. REAL

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!
A simple friend will read and throw this note away.
A real friend will send it back to you until he's sure it's been received.
What am i to you?

Dont Judge ME.........Am sorry i misjudged YOU

You have not walked in my shoes
You have not been down my road.
You have not cried my tears.
You have not carried my load.

Why do you judge me?

You think you know my story.
You think you know my pain.
You think you know my future.
You don’t even know my name.

Why do you judge me?

You were not there to see me stumble.
You were not there to see me fall.
You were not there to pick me up.
You were not there at all.

Why do you judge me?

Am sorry i misjudged you (OMIE & MYOM)....and am really glad i met you

PRIDE.................Where do u think it will get YOU?

A poor boy loved a rich girl. 1 day the boy proposed to her, then d girl said, ..."listen ! your monthly salary is my daily hand expenses. How can I be involved wit U? How could you have thought of that? I can never love you. So, forget about me & get engaged with someone else of your level." But somehow the boy could not 4get her so easily.

10 years later.

One day they came face 2 face in a shopping center.the lady said, "Hey! U! How are you? Now I'm married. Do u know how much my husband's salary is? N200k per month! Can u imagine? & he is also very smart." The guy's eyes got wet with tear by hearing those words. After few minutes her husband came. B4 d lady could say anything, her husband said on seeing d guy. "Sir u are here? Meet my wife."
Then he said 2 his wife, "This is my boss, I'm also 1 of those working on His $100million project. And do you know a fact my dear? My boss loved a girl but he culdn't get her. That's why he is unmarried.
How much lucky would that girl have been if she had married him. Now a days who can have this type of love for someone?
 
Moral: Life is so short. So, don't be so proud of yourself and damn others. Situations change with time. Every one should respect others love.
Not only in love...just don't be proud generally...

FRIENDSHIP ABC.......................... Part 2

(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over
(J)ust "be" with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life
(N)ever Judges
(O)ffers support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits
(S)ays nice things about you
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you
(W)alks beside you
(X)-plain things you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality

FRIENDSHIP ABC..........................

Always be honest, would you want THEM to lie to you?
Be there when they need you, or you may wind up alone.
Cheer them on, we all need encouragement now and then.
Don't look for their faults, even if you have none.
Encourage their dreams, what would we be without them?
Forgive them, you just MAY do something wrong sometime.
Get together often, misery loves company, so does glee.
Have faith in them, the human animal is remarkable.
Include them, you may need to be included sometime.
Just be there when they need you.
Know when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one?
Love them unconditionally, that is the ONLY condition.
Make them feel special, because aren't we ALL special?
Never forget them, who wants to feel forgotten?
Offer to help, and know when "No thanks" is just politeness.
Praise them honestly and openly.
Quietly disagree, noisy NO's make enemies.
Really listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm.
Say you're sorry, don't let them assume it.
Talk frequently, communication is important.
Use good judgment.
Verbalize your feelings!
Wish them luck, hopefully good!
Xamine your motives before you "help" out.
Your words count, use them wisely.
Zip your lips when told a secret.
By following these ABC's as often as you are able, you SHOULD live a LONG and friend-filled life.