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Saturday, 30 June 2012

HATRED

A kindergarten teacher decided to let her class play a game.

The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes.

Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates.
So the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates.

So when the day came, each child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated.

Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes.

Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags.
After 1 week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended...
The teacher asked:
"How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for 1 week?".

The children let out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.

The teacher said:
"This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime???"

Moral of the story:
Throw away any hatred for anyone from your heart so that you will not carry bad odour for a lifetime.
Forgiving others is the best attitude to take!
HATRED STINKS!
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Wednesday, 27 June 2012

My FATHER


Fathers are wonderful people
Too little understood,
And we do not sing their praises
As often as we should.

For, somehow, Father seems to be
The man who pays the bills,
While Mother binds up little hurts
And nurses all our ills.

And Father struggles daily
To live up to "his image"
As protector and provider
And "hero of the scrimmage".

And perhaps that is the reason
We sometimes get the notion,
That Fathers are not subject
To the thing we call emotion,

But if you look inside Dad's heart,
Where no one else can see
You'll find he's sentimental
And as "soft" as he can be.

But he's so busy every day
In the grueling race of life,
He leaves the sentimental stuff
To his partner and his wife.

But Fathers are just wonderful
In a million different ways,
And they merit loving compliments
And accolades of praise,

For the only reason Dad aspires
To fortune and success
Is to make the family proud of him
And to bring them happiness.

He's a guardian and a guide,
Someone that we can count on
To be always on our side.

I LOVE MY DAD

Friday, 22 June 2012

Boko Haram- Muslim Army?

My aim is not to apologize for my religion; I will not write as one who is ashamed of my way of
life, and before you shout ‘Southern Muslim!’ like I’m certain you’re probably already thinking,
let me inform you that Muslims all over the world are one and the same.

Once, the Prophet (PBUH) was asked ‘who is a Muslim?’, his reply made it clear that anyone
who believes in the Oneness of God and offers as-salat (prayers) regularly is a Muslim; I call this
the ‘minimum requirement(s) into the school of Islam’, a School of which I’m a proud student. I
have faith in the Oneness of God, I observe as-salat, I give Zakat (charity), I fast during  Ramadan, and I hope to go on pilgrimage soon. Muslim, I am, and I will die as one (Insha Allah).

 Many times, I’ve had cause to dispel rumours about my religion (I do not conform to any form of
stereotype, so I’ve had the privilege of hearing a lot of lies and conjecture). Once, on a bus from Enugu to Lagos, a preacher decided to get the attention of his ‘mobile congregation’ by misquoting and murdering verses from the Holy Qur’an. I respectfully waited for him to end his hateful sermon, then produced my Quran and read the actual verses to everyone in the bus. I even took time to explain what Jihad means, what it entails, and what led to it. Yes, I’m a woman; No, I’m not a scholar. But do you have to be male or a Reverend to understand the Bible?

 As you most probably already know, Jihad means Holy War. There are two forms of Jihad- the
one you fight within yourself (this entails choosing between what’s right and what’s wrong),
and actual warfare. Now, what led to it? When the Prophet (PBUH) began to spread the message of Islam, the unbelievers (pagans, idol worshippers) of that time decided that Muslims didn’t
deserve to live; they attacked Muslims, took over their properties, killed them. Muslims were oppressed. Initially, they were asked to ignore the pagans and maintain peace, but when the situation became unbearable, God asked them to fight back. The first verse revealed with
respect to Jihad (V 2:190) says ‘ And fight in the way of Allah those who fight you, but transgress not the limits.
Truly, Allah likes not the transgressors ‘. This verse is the ‘foundation’ of Jihad, it prescribes THE standard for warfare in the name of God. Fight against those who fight against you; God did not say ‘fight against those who piss you off’, He didn’t say ‘fight against those who you don’t like’. ‘Fight against those who fight against you’ means self-defence is the ONLY form of violence that’s
permitted. ‘But do not transgress limits’; self-defence was the previously established limit. ‘Transgression’ would then mean fighting people who didn’t attack you first. This is termed ‘irjaf’. Irjaf and Jihad are two extremely different things.

 Before you judge the over one billion Muslims in the world by the actions of some hell-bound
transgressors, kindly permit me to draw your attention to the Muslim Capital of the World; Saudi
Arabia. Do Christians live there or not? How many times has a suicide bombing occurred there?
How many times have some obviously deluded, highly misguided maniacs demanded that they all revert to Islam?

This brings me to another issue- suicide. My Qur’an tells me that suicide is a one-way ticket to Hell. Couple that with aggression, and tell me what the outcome would be.
This brings me, inevitably, to Boko Haram. Personally, I believe what happened in this case was
a deliberate move by government to hijack a problem that should have been solved at inception,
and turn it to a political tool for division.

Nigerians have always had a penchant for tribalism; add different religions to the mix and the potion becomes even more volatile and potentially lethal. Just how lethal that potion is, is what
we’re all experiencing now. Frankly, what this is about is speaking for myself and others like me, and most importantly, sparing Islam the pain of being seen as something it’s not. Claiming Islam encourages violence is akin to saying that Christianity or Buddhism or Zoroastrianism, or even
Scientology, gives room for a vice that some of its followers have. Right now, I’m just so glad that
Hitler and Truman weren’t Muslims.

My point? PEOPLE are evil, PEOPLE kill, and taking up arms and killing little children is no
justification. Boko Haram does not have the mandate of Nigerian Muslims to exterminate
Christians. When Boko Haram killed Imams almost on a daily basis, there were no reprisals.
Nobody said ‘Muslims have asked Boko Haram to kill the clerics’. When busy areas of Kano were bombed, no one said ‘Muslims are killing Christians again’. This selective anger, this selective pity, is what I do not like. My eldest sister is an evangelist, my niece bears the name
‘Chukwuamaka’, her father is an Igbo man. Why would I, a Muslim, then decide to send Boko Haram on a mission to kill Christians? Or why would I harbour murderous thoughts towards Christians at all?

My Quran tells me that ‘……. he who takes a life will be judged like he killed all of mankind….he
who saves a life will be judged like he saved all of mankind’ (5:32). If Boko Haram is following any sort of manual, it is not this Qur’an (or any other for that matter because there are no different versions. The Qur’an is the same anywhere in the world). Perhaps if we did the right thing and displaced those thieves and murderers from their seats of power, we would find copies of the manual beneath those seats.
There’s a rule I abide by; ‘if you don’t know it, don’t say it’. Seventy-two virgins as reward for suicide? I’ve read the Qur’an  from cover to cover countless times and not once have I come
across it. The Holy Qur’an does not portray Paradise as a reward for suicide and/or murder.
I pray that God gives all those who’ve lost their loved ones- Muslims, Christians, Traditionalists, free thinkers- the fortitude to bear the loss.

Rinsola Abiola
@Rinsola_Abiola